Literal question
10_10.3 I would now like to ask you how you feel about your husband. This hand represents you, and the other represents your husband. Compared to your husband, do you feel more like: - independent, like this [spread your hands wider than your shoulders] - close, like this [spread your hands to the width of your shoulders] - united, like this [put your hands a little closer] or integrated, like this [hands joined] (Please do not leave your hands in any of the positions described)